A Hawaiian Temple Bodywork session begins, ends, and is infused with ritual and prayer, setting the space as sacred, and calling in the support of the lineage of teachers and healers. Preparation for the recipient is simply being open to receive the work. There is nothing more to do. In temple style lomilomi this is assisted by means of rituals before and after the hands-on massage portion of the work. They are integral and essential to the healing process. It is intimate work. These rituals, the prayers, music, chant and symbolism are all essential safeguards and help to maintain the creation of sacred space. Sacred space provides for opening and surrender to trust and receiving the complete unconditional love of the practitioner. This spirit of Aloha and focused intent for the good of the recipient becomes the immanent manifestation of the love and grace of God. Emotions are released. Crying is not uncommon, nor is laughter. The physical sensations as the mana is raised and directed throughout the body, are intense and sometimes overwhelming, often more than we are accustomed to.
So allow plenty of time to process after your session ends. Emotional release is not a goal, but it is common. The only goal is to create and maintain a place of complete safety where you can release anything and everything that no longer serves you.
Anointing
The recipient changes clothes and dons a sarong. The practitioner is also clothed in a sarong. The recipient stands near the table, eyes closed, focusing on thier own breath. The practitioner stands in front of the recipient, and begins by anointing his own hands with oils and praying. He then, without touching the physical body, begins the anointing process of the recipient by drawing his hands down, over and around the recipient from head to foot. This process is repeated, moving closer and closer to the recipient, until the lightly oiled fingertips make contact, stroking downward, like raindrops. Oils are then copiously applied to the practitioner's hands, and as the hands make full contact, the oil is applied to the exposed areas of the skin, acclimating the recipient to the practitioner's touch and the sensation of being richly bathed in nourishing oils. As the recipient focusus on their own breath and releasing what no longer serves them they may drop their sarong as the anointing continues with full strokes over almost the entire body. The sarong is re-draped over the shoulders and the recipient is guided to the table.
On the Table
There is not bottom sheet on the table for this style of lomilomi. The recipient lies down with the sarong covering them. On the table, the practitioner reverently fans the sarong in wavelike motions, bringing it off the body and into the air. This, and the other ritual actiions help to bring the session out of Chronos and into vertical time, the Now. As the sarong settles back onto the recipient, it is folded inward until it makes a narrow drape for the recipient. For some recipients, this symbolic covering of the most vulnerable areas assists them to open to an experience that may be beyond their current capacity to trust.
Then, assisted by the music, and assisted by his own breath, the practitioner again and again delivers flowing and caressing strokes over and around the recipient like waves of the ocean. The practitioner moves intuitively, not performing a set routine. The complete focus of the practitioner is on the recipient’s highest good manifested as waves upon waves of unconditional love. It is inconceivably intense, overwhelmingly nurturing, the sense of perfection and well being is like nothing in ordinary experience.
Closing the Session
Because of the profound, intense experience of Lomilomi and because of the sacred space and boundless trust required, closing the session is as important as opening it. Allow plenty of time for your Lomilomi session. The rituals for closing the session are similar to those for opening it, but in reverse order, disengaging gradually, replacing the drape and billowing it upward several times, allowing it to rest on the body as the recipient returns to ordinary reality, renewed, healed and refreshed.